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When Life Hands You Lemons… Learn Alchemy

All too often, our circumstances are defined by what other people tell us is realistic or feasible. The old saying, “When life hands you lemons, make lemonade,” is a perfect example of this paradigm.

What if I don’t like lemons? What if I’m not in the mood for lemonade?

Too bad, the logic goes, those were the cards you were dealt. You’ll just have to make do with what you have.

Nope. Nuh-uh. Not any more. Not for me. When life hands me lemons, I’m making orange juice. Read the rest of this entry »

The War of Art by Steven Pressfield

The War of ArtThe War of Art by Steven Pressfield is amazing. If you deal with creativity in your work or personal life, I can’t make a better recommendation.

I don’t know why I went so long without reading this book.

I had heard friends mention it in passing, but honestly hadn’t paid much attention to it.

Last year, I finally picked up the War of Art and finished it over Christmas break. I loved it.

Pressfield’s The War of Art is a must-read for any writer or artist.

This manifesto for creatives is essential for anyone longing to overcome “The Resistance” (the name of the force that prevents each of us from accomplishing our dreams.)

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It’s Time to Begin

It’s time to get started. No excuses or distractions.

Turn off the TV. Shut down Twitter. Step away from the noise.

You’ve been dreading this moment. It’s both scary and exciting. But the allure of it is also cause for your anxiety. You can think of a million reasons to procrastinate, to put off your duty just another hour or day or month and only one to do it — you simply must. Read the rest of this entry »

What to Do with Unfair Criticism

  1. Say thank you. All feedback is a gift.
  2. Think and possibly pray (if you’re the type to do so) about what was shared. Is there merit to it, anything you can glean that will help you grow?
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There will always be critics — those who will malign and slander your work, call you a hack, or convince you to quit.

It is your choice whether their words will make you stronger or weaker, whether they will wound you or spur you on. Read the rest of this entry »

Writing Tip: Tell Me Something Different

Don’t tell me something that I could’ve read somewhere else. Don’t tell me something that I already know.

Tell me something different.

Tell me something unique, something that will cause me to read what you wrote not once, but twice or three times.

Tell me something that will cause me to go back and read it again to my wife. Tell me something that I’m going to highlight, post to Twitter, and repeat to myself for the rest of the day.

Tell me something I won’t easily forget. Again, I say: tell me something different.